“Your Vibe Attracts Your Vibe”. Have You Found Your Tribe Yet?
The saying, “your vibe attracts your vibe” holds a lot of truth. You’ll eventually be attracted to people who share the same “vibe” with you, and those people may also introduce you to others with the same vibe.
When finding your tribe, the best thing to do is to act like yourself. If you try to be something you’re not, then you’re going to attract a tribe that isn’t for you.
It’s all about vibes
The world will return the same energy that you emit to the world. So if you’re a deceitful or lying person, you will either lose the people around you, or attract people with the same vibe. If you’re a trustworthy person who shows care and compassion, you’ll attract a tribe that shares those kind of traits.
If the voice in your head is saying “Why do things like this always happen to me?” or “I’m never going to achieve that. I should give up”, then the energy you give off will come back to you.
Instead try to give yourself positive affirmations like, “I am so lucky I have an amazing partner”, or “I am ready to take on what the world will throw at me” so you can get the same vibes back from the universe.
Your vibes also help you repel people who are damaging to your vibes. Eventually you’ll notice people who emit bad energy to you. Even people close to you will be judgmental, patronizing, dishonest, contradictory, and so on. You won’t see this early on, but you’ll eventually be victim to some bad energy that’s coming from somewhere deep in those people.
One of the first steps for most people when finding their tribe is to let go of people that constantly emit bad vibes. You will come to the realization that you don’t deserve all this bad energy in your life. This may sound harsh or cold to just “let go”, but even people with the worst vibes know to stay away from other “bad-vibe” people. Your vibe attracts your tribe even when you don’t know it.
You’re going to lose a lot of friends a long the way, but this is the beginning of the process. Letting go of people is something that will happen as long as you have relationships. Unfortunately, even after finding your tribe, you’ll have to let other people go or choose to give less energy into that relationship and more into other ones. As time goes by, people can change but it doesn’t mean you can’t remain friends. Your vibe attracts your tribe but as people change, the vibes can change too.
What about people in my circle going through a rough patch?
If someone is down on their luck or is going through some difficult times, it doesn’t mean you have to let them go. If the person in your circle is always going through hard times, and is somewhat consistent, then you shouldn’t just pass it off. The people who are always in some kind of drama or creating their own problems on a frequent basis, should be a concern to you. Your vibe attracts your vibe, so if you have a vibe of being real with that person, you will see who the person truly is. When I mean real, I mean calling that person out on why they are always in a rough patch.
It’s hard to get let go of people and it sounds callous.
You know what’s harder? Having even just one negative person around you, killing your energy with theirs. And you allow it to happen. A lot of the time it’s you giving the bad energy, and you’re getting back what you emit. People tend to let people into their life because it feels good to not be alone. You lower your standards and what you actually deserve by doing this. What you think you deserve reflects into your reality.
There was once a person I knew since I was a young kid. This person wasn’t a saint but had good qualities as well. Everyone who knew this person always had something to bad to say. It was a word of caution. I just thought to myself “They don’t really know this person like I do. I shouldn’t take it serious.”
This person deep inside was a negative person and very judgmental but later on I noticed it all just came from insecurity. I was always asked if I was talking about him behind his back or if I was “loyal” to this person. Then I was called by that person a “shady person”. I noticed what he perceived of me was actually just me reflecting back his vibe. The truth was this person was secretive, deceitful, and overall negative from the very start of the relationship. And I allowed it because I didn’t want to feel lonely. This is just more proof of “your vibe attracts your tribe.”
You love helping people right?
There is nothing wrong with helping people. It’s the way it should be. But if you have people in your circle constantly asking for favors that they can do themselves, then teach them how to do that particular thing. Ask yourself why you think you have to do everything for everybody. Empowering them by teaching is an even better vibe.
What kind of vibe do I need to be giving off?
The best kind of vibe is loving yourself. When you love yourself, then you have the ability to love others in a way that isn’t compromising yourself. Being the most authentic you can be is how you show your vibe. The parts of yourself you show to people is what they show back. If you send out a vibe of self-dislike then you will attract people who will reflect it back to you.
How do I do this?
You must acknowledge what you want in life. Write it down somewhere and notice the people who reflect that back to you. Get help from those people, good mentors, or join a community of encouraging people. It’s true that your vibe attracts your tribe, and you have seen this from first hand experience. Keep this is mind and you will see how your vibe attracts your tribe, and the tribe can help you manifest the life you actually want for a change.